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when I first met him .. he was an angel . he disliked smoking && alcohol && after we broke up for almost 1 mth. when we got back together he told me he fell hard into that crap && I can’t accept it . he admits it’s wrong && he should stop but he doesn’t want to lie to me && tell me he’s going to stop if he knows he can’t .. he has tried a few times && he lasted at most 1 week w. out it . his "friends" were the one’s who got him smoking && he knows it but he also has fault in it bcus it’s not like there forcing him to smoke . I just don’t know what to do ! im glad he’s being honest && not promising me he’ll stop if he isn’t but I just can’t accept it && I won’t && this is DESTROYING me :’(
Mike_T says:
I know exactly how you feel, I was in a very similar situation. I remember that I was so nervous at that time and I took it out on everyone around me. I didnt know what could I do until, thanks god, I found Smoke Deter. Now I can look back and laugh on myself and in the same time I remember how helpless I was. I hope that I'll never be in the same situation again
You can’t, he has to do it because he wants to.
Its addicting, you have to let him be. He will quit when hes ready, if you keep bugging him, he will get mad.
Smoking is a very hard habit to break. It will take a lot of will power and determination. He’ll have to give up when he’s ready.
The only thing i can suggest is too support him and when he goes to give you a kiss, say no because you can’t stand the smell of smoke. That’ll make him think twice
Good Luck!
hey there,
that sounds terrible! i have a friend that was in a similar position… she was the sweetest girl ever didn’t smoke got tipsy on cruisers the whole innocent package. then she made these new friends and she feel of the tracks. she got into drugs, smoking and was an alcoholic by the end of it. she totally admits all of this. However she is fine now… she went away for a bit with her boyfriend and had a complete change of scenery. she isn’t drinking anymore or doing drugs, she still has the occasional smoke but baby steps right? pretty much she had to get away from her friends. but she had to make the decision to. and i guess your bf has to make that decision too. all i know is that people usually only stop their ‘bad habits’ when something really really bad happens…
I hope everything turns out for the best with you!!
good luck!
You just need to try to be more supportive of him if and when he tries to quit.
Smoking is a hard habit to kick, and it can be even more hard for people who rely on it in times of stress. He needs to find another way to get rid of stress besides smoking, or he needs to find a way to not stress over things in the first place.
It might be destroying you, but it’s harder for him. Think of him and his feelings before your own.