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i been with my bf for almost a year now, and ever since i met him he smokes & it bothered me but not as much as now, makes me feel like hes very pathetic when he gets home with his eyes all red and small, plus we have a baby on the way i hate being around the smell so he always leaves me at home & goes to smoke with his buddies so its making us fall apart someone please help!
Mike_T says:
I know exactly how you feel, I was in a very similar situation. I remember that I was so nervous at that time and I took it out on everyone around me. I didnt know what could I do until, thanks god, I found Smoke Deter. Now I can look back and laugh on myself and in the same time I remember how helpless I was. I hope that I'll never be in the same situation again
Talk to him about this issue. Explain to him how much you don’t like it, then talk to him about the more important things like your baby on the way. Tell him if he loves you enough and he’s willing to take on the responsibilities of being a father that you’ll stay with him, if not say you’re leaving. Then give him a little bit and see if you see a change in his behavior. Make sure while talking to him you let him know how much it hurts you and stresses you out, and ask him when he’s going to drop some balls and stop the childish things (i.e-smoking pot); if he doesn’t learn from everything, drop him, he’s a scum bag, loser. If he changes, then he’s worth it, maybe he’ll mature up a little and realize he has more responsibilities in life, and should put his money towards his family, not a pathetic hobby.
He has to stop the addiction himself. All you can do is put your foot down and stop looking after him. You are ‘enabling’ him to keep his addiction. Dont feed him, wash for him, make love with him. It might make him realise you mean it.
dont date him if you dont like it. he shouldnt have to change for you. im sure theres something you do that irritates him and he smokes to get rid of his stress. theres nothing wrong with smoking weed.
you knew he smoked it before, deal with it. It was your choice to stay with him once you found out. he never hid it from you, and now suddenly b/c there is a baby on the way you want to change him? if you are really so against it, you should have gotten out before you had a chance to make a baby. The best thing you can do is to talk to him calmly about the way it makes you feel and from there it is his choice as a human being. But honestly do not give him an ultimatum. You are his girlfriend not his mother.
honestly when that baby pops out you should go and smoke with him because weed is amazinggg
sounds like a dick. ditch him, you have someone else to think about now. you don’t want your child to grow up in that environment. and tell him he’s not allowed to see the child unless he quits. if your child is around that kind of environment it will encourage him to start it. you don’t want your child to start doing drugs as soon as he’s old enough to know how do you?
sorry you shoulve known this since the beggineng and know it would be hard to tell him to stop.I mean you met him like this, but since you guys are goonnna have a baby tell him to get some help, or if he doesnt want to you would have to stick that way… or leave him:(
Talk to him? Do you live in a trailer park perchance?
Tell him you will leave him and how you think this will affect your baby’s life. I hope he stops!
leave him. probably won’t get him to stop, but you won’t have to deal with that crap anymore. he won’t stop. and it’s REALLY bad for you while you’re pregnant, and for the baby. why did you have a kid with a pothead?
Leave him, you can do better I’m guessing. Your baby can DIE because of second hand smoke. If he’s smoking frequently that can deffinetly kill him/her. Second hand smoke is twice as bad as the smoke taken in by the smoker. Since the smoker has had the smoke filtered.