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He smokes way too much, and I’m worried about his health. But I have no idea how I can talk to him about this. I don’t want to like say "stop smoking or else" But I want to help him, he’s already looking unhealthy.
Btw, we are both 16…not sur if that will help but if it does…well then there you go.
Mike_T says:
I know exactly how you feel, I was in a very similar situation. I remember that I was so nervous at that time and I took it out on everyone around me. I didnt know what could I do until, thanks god, I found Smoke Deter. Now I can look back and laugh on myself and in the same time I remember how helpless I was. I hope that I'll never be in the same situation again
your boyfriend is going to have to stop smoking on his own it is something you cannot decide for him I know u are trying to watch out for him but its the way it goes. Try to look up people with emphysema and cancer on the internet
flush all his cigs down the toilet
refuse to kiss him until he stops
or only get so close
tell him ur sick of it and if he dont you dump him
secretly hide nasty stuff in his smokes. Stuff like soap, and urine.
He will eventually decide they are too nasty and stop.
say "stop smoking or I dont like you anymore"
he will stop if he really likes you
HE has to want to stop smoking. If you try to convince him to stop, he will probably just resent it or want to smoke all the more. If he ever talks about wanting to quit, then encourage him and be supportive. But when I smoked, it just annoyed the hell out of me when people harped on the fact I should quit.
Lol…
I’ve been trying to get mine to quit for the past four years…
When you get a solution, let me know…
Don’t leave him because he won’t quit; it’s harder to do than it seems.
hes not worth it. if he doesnt care to stop for you than he obviously doesnt care about you.. so you shouldnt either.
he wont stop. ive been there, and im 16 as well.
try to get him involved in sports or anything that would keep him busy or make him want to focus on health more.
the more you tell someone not to do something, their defenses go up, their esteem gets low and it’ll make them more stressed and want to do that think you told them not to do.
My ex gf tried everything. I’m sorry to say, but I don’t think anything can make a person quit except themselves.
I quit about a year after we broke up.
Make a slide show of all the terrible things that could happen.
Tell him how much you love him and that you don’t want any of that to happen to him. You want him to be a around a long time and he needs to stop for his own good and health.
Good Luck!
and keep in mind. It will take a lot of effort to quiet so give him a lot of encouragement saying that he CAN do it! and really reward him when NOT IF… WHEN…… he finally quiets. It will take time
hope i helped.
Tell him its the ciggies or you.
Hon he won’t stop unless he knows you’re serious.
Sit him down and talk to him about it. Tell him that you want him to be healthy and well, and tell him you love him (only if you actually love him of course xD). If he doesn’t say he’ll quit for you or he doesn’t follow through with it, and it bothers you that much, just leave him, I guess…
Leave Chewing Gum in places where he would normally leave his ciggys.
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Just tell him, "I don’t like it that you smoke. You look unhealthy, you smell bad, and you taste bad when I kiss you. I’ll buy you the patch if you are willing to try stopping."
I dont think there is anything you can do to make him quit if he doesnt want to. It might cost you the relationship.
call an addict hotline
I know it sounds to extreme
but I did
and life is good now. :]
show him some pictures of people who have smoked for a long time. this might turn him off. if it doesn’t create an ultimatum. stop smoking or i will ___________. it might work. and buy him some nicotine gum just to make him do it. (you might want to do this first)
you have to talk to him because there is no other way. tell him he has to stop. Ever heard of second-hand smoking? Just being around ONCE while he is smoking increases your chance of lung cancer by a lot. Kissing a smoker is like licking an ash try. If he wont stop, break up. goodluck think about YOUR health
he will only stop if he wont’s to and even then its hard he will need them patch’s to stop the cravings if you can get him to give it a go just workout how much money he could save a month if he stops smoking that might make him wont to stop
Hmmm… 16 a bit young to smoke……..rlly
Tell him you care about him and you don’t want him getting hurt.
Tell someone like a docter to give any thing that will stop the addiction.
But most of all tell him about God and what life rlly is. Jesus died on the cross for us you know… smoking dosen’t answer anything in life only brings more bad things.
God Bless!!!
Sometime you need to do wat you got to do……but really tell him how you really feels about him smoking and how much he means to you in your life and how it will hurt to see his health get worst…make sure you tell him how if effect your relationship and yourself
you can’t really unless he wants to change
but if he really ‘loves’ you, then he will.
Tell him the risks of smoking, or just don’t get close to him until he stops smoking.
Hope I helped.
tell him you care about him, and if he cares about you than he would quit….obviously it is hard to quit so dont forget about that
You cant make anyone change…people have to change for them selfs.
I have been a smoker for longer then i like to think. but what i ask my docs they haven’t told me to quit because my blond pressure is way too low and salt pills give me headaches.
I did quit one for 2 yrs. my boyfriend refused to kiss me after I smoked. it annoyed the piss out of me & kind of ran me off, but still to this day i don’t smoke inside.
You have to want to give it up (non-smokers cant understand this, it has to be your idea). for me he was not the right reason…. maybe another guy will be the right one.
Best Wish’s
Nolwe
I’ve been trying to post this for myselfy, but I keep getting an Error:
"Quit Smoking With Electronic Cigarette!?
Can you Quit Smoking using these Electronic Cigarettes? I am looking to buy one for my dad, but I’m not too sure about them. Does anyone use these currently or have you used them. Do you know of anyone who used them? I guess it still gives you the sensation of smoking, but only the nicotine and not all the harmful other chemicals and toxins. Please give me your opinion.
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